這句he`s just fire-gazing.是來自Why men don`t have a clue and women always need more shoes 這本書，先謝謝大家的回答唷~
整段內容是:if a man is with his friends and not talking, it doesn`t mean they`ve had an argument; he`s just fire-gazing. men don`t expect other men to talk much and they never insist on having a conversation. when one of them is fire-gazing with a drink in his hand, other men intuitively understand, and allow him to carry on. they never force him to talk. nobody says, "tell me about your day... who did you meet and what were they like?" when they do talk, men disscuss work, sport,cars and spatially related things. they take turns at speaking because their brains are organized either to speak or to listen. unlike women, they can`t do both.