爸媽與外婆的代溝

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">每次逢年過節要拜拜的時候..我就超苦惱</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">爸媽帶我回去找外婆的時候</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">就會有不祥的預感......</span></span></p>   <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">果不其然</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">一回去就開始在爭吵</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">就中元節要準備哪些供品也能吵</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我外婆觀念比較傳統一點</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">習慣都去菜市場買三牲水果之類的</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">然後我爸媽就喜歡跑大賣場</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">很方便又可以一應俱全</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">像是果凍素三牲或者糕餅飲料..都幫我們準備好了</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">請問長輩間的代溝要如何解決比較好?<br /> <img alt="" height="100" src="https://forum.fashionguide.com.tw/ckeditor/plugins/smiley/images/fg/new_12.jpg" title="" width="100" /></span></span></p> <div> </div>
  • <span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-dfac-43c5-d52e-cc309c44b66b"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: transparent;">現在天氣那麼熱,市場買的東西感覺都壞一半了...</span></span>
  • 就去賣場買一買啊,營業時間長、停車又方便、東西也比較全@@ <br /> <img alt="frown" height="37" src="https://forum.fashionguide.com.tw/ckeditor/plugins/smiley/images/fg/fgicon_8.gif" title="frown" width="40" />
  • <span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-dfbb-534f-6af1-17ebb495d04a"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: transparent;">廣仲說,有心意才是最重要der</span></span><br /> <u><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-dfbb-7875-9648-fff83f30436a"><a href="https://goo.gl/sLQkxt" style="-decoration:none;" target="_blank"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="background-color:#FFFFFF;">https://goo.gl/sLQkxt</span></span></span></a></span></u>
  • 我不喜歡果凍或素、糕點做的三牲......因為我比較喜歡吃肉  哈哈哈<br /> 大賣場也有在賣真的三牲跟水果,價錢的話我覺得都差不多<br /> 我不知道有什麼好吵的?<br /> 你爸媽是硬要用假三牲拜嗎?還是外婆硬要去菜市場買?<br />  
  • 外婆堅持說要市場買比較有心意<br /> 然後我爸媽說簡單方便就好,心意最重要,在哪裡買其次~<br />  
  • 如果是我的話就會一直問你外婆為什麼市場買比較有心意?他回答什麼就一直問為什麼就對了<br /> 通常會自己想通,不然就是會說不出個所以然,然後生氣的說反正市場買比較有心意啦!<br /> 如果年紀不大或身體還沒不好,我會讓他自己去市場買,這樣不是最有心意?<br /> 反正老人老了跟小孩差不多,都要<s>訓練?(誤 </s>都要好好教導一下
  • <blockquote style="ber-left: #999 2px solid; margin: 1em 3em; padding-left: 1em; color: #999">goz645619 的話: <br />   <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">每次逢年過節要拜拜的時候..我就超苦惱</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">爸媽帶我回去找外婆的時候</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">就會有不祥的預感......</span></span></p>   <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">果不其然</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span style="color:#FF0000;"><strong><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft JhengHei"; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">一回去就開始在爭吵</span></span></strong></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">就中元節要準備哪些供品也能吵</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">我外婆觀念比較傳統一點</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">習慣都去菜市場買三牲水果之類的</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">然後我爸媽就喜歡跑大賣場</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">很方便又可以一應俱全</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">像是果凍素三牲或者糕餅飲料..都幫我們準備好了</span></span></p> <p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1.3800000000000001;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-3c534b9a-df9d-2820-b7b7-9d9db8036274"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Microsoft JhengHei'; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">請問長輩間的代溝要如何解決比較好?</span></span><br />  </p> <div> </div> </blockquote> <br /> 如何解決??<br /> 建議是......<br /> 上一代的恩恩怨怨....<br /> 說真的<br /> 常聽人家說:[羅馬不是一天造成的]<br /> <br /> 上一代的恩恩怨怨...也絕對不是一天就有的<br /> 而是經年累月的累積<br /> <br /> 所以台語會說:[相欠債]<br /> 那是他們之間的事, 與您無關....沒事不要貼過去攪和<br /> 當您立場站定邊了<br /> 麻煩就來囉~~~....相信我<br /> <br /> 而且說實在的<br /> 您一位做人家晚輩的...一邊是父母, 另一邊是母親的母親<br /> 您又能"解決"甚麼呢??<br /> <br /> 這時代<br /> 聯合國都沒辦法搞定國際間的紛爭了<br /> 我們還能做啥呢???<br /> <br /> 而且<br /> 如果您這樣了解兩邊的家人的家屬<br /> 都不知道該如何"解決"一邊是父母, 另一邊是母親的母親...的恩恩怨怨了<br /> 我覺得我這路人甲乙丙就更不知道如何置喙了<br /> <br /> 尤其如您文章之中的語氣"<span style="color:#FF0000;"><strong><span style="font-family: "Microsoft JhengHei"; font-size: 16px; font-style: italic; white-space: pre-wrap;">中元節要準備哪些供品</span></strong></span><u><strong><span style="font-family: "Microsoft JhengHei"; font-size: 16px; font-style: italic; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-size:20px;">也</span></span></strong></u><span style="color:#FF0000;"><strong><span style="font-family: "Microsoft JhengHei"; font-size: 16px; font-style: italic; white-space: pre-wrap;">能吵</span></strong></span>"<br /> 我也覺得...<br /> 不過就是些祭祀要準備的東西嘛.....這樣"<span style="font-size:22px;"><u><strong><span style="font-family: "Microsoft JhengHei"; font-style: italic; white-space: pre-wrap;">也</span></strong></u></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-family: "Microsoft JhengHei"; font-size: 16px; font-style: italic; white-space: pre-wrap;">能吵</span></strong></span>"????<br /> <br /> 我看啊~<br /> 他們之間的恩恩怨怨...真的喔~~<br /> 真的絕對不是一天就存在的喔~~~<br /> <br /> 算了啦~<br /> 牙齒沒事都會咬到舌頭了<br /> 算了啦~<br /> 況且人家說<br /> 小吵不算吵<br /> 大吵就到旁邊......都是一家人嘛~<br /> 吵吵<br /> 也熱鬧~ 熱鬧.....<br /> <br /> 反正拜拜完<br /> 坐下來還是會一起圍桌吃飯<br /> 都是一家人<br /> 不是嗎???<br /> <br /> 算了啦~..............
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