小心！有這5大徵兆　他是恐怖情人

這兩天新聞很聳動～我想這應該對大家也有幫助：<br /> <br /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">《健康醫療網》引述花蓮慈濟醫院身心科醫師蔡欣記的看法，指出恐怖情人有5大徵兆：</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">1.情人是否為挽回你，曾說過「分手想自殺」這種話語，還會反覆出現此種模式</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">2.有習慣自傷，不論是否因感情因素，透過自傷來宣洩情緒</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">3.要藥酒癮者，下班後習慣用藥或有酗酒習慣，且情緒波動大、不穩定</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">4.網路和現實反差大者，現實中用詞彬彬有禮，網路中卻殘忍無情，留下恐怖文字</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">5.頻繁的用簡訊或電話威脅對方，讓對方產生恐懼感</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">要是真碰到恐怖情人，該怎麼辦？專家也提出6點建議。</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">1.趁他犯錯時，理性提出分手</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">2.分手時不可一人出現，需在朋友陪同下前往</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">3.分手地點必須是人多熱鬧處</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">4.談判前先看好逃生路線，增加自己安全性</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">5.用智慧談分手，依對方個性來溝通，若對方吃軟不吃硬，言語上必須緩和</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">6.若成功完成談判也莫輕忽，分手後的幾天必須小心互動</span><br style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;" /> <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Helvetica, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18.1818180084229px; line-height: 27px;">（盧麗蓮／綜合報導）</span><br /> <br /> http://www.appledaily.com.tw/realtimenews/article/local/20140923/474591/%E5%B0%8F%E5%BF%83%EF%BC%81%E6%9C%89%E9%80%995%E5%A4%A7%E5%BE%B5%E5%85%86%E3%80%80%E4%BB%96%E6%98%AF%E6%81%90%E6%80%96%E6%83%85%E4%BA%BA